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Perfectionists May Have Less-Than-Perfect Marriages
那些自认是完美主义都的人可能在工作上表现得不错,但他们在婚姻或其他亲密关系中较可能遇上麻烦。这项研究显示,那些认为自己的伴侣是完美主义者的人较多地投诉对方用挖苦、唠叨其它引发矛盾的方式应对婚姻中的问题。
People who describe themselves as perfectionists may do well on job interviews,
but new study findings suggest that they may struggle in marriage and other
intimate relationships.
In this study, a team of Canadian researchers report that men and women who
identified their partners as perfectionists--meaning they felt that their mates
demanded perfection from them--tended to report greater use of sarcasm, nagging
and other conflict-driven strategies to cope with their marital problems.
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